I am sitting here upset. I am trying to remain positive. I went out with a guy and it went really well. I texted him about 2 hours ago and still haven’t received anything back. I am trying to remain positive because in reality he is probably busy. However, what if he isn’t? I don’t think he would be the type of guy to just stop texting with no explanation, but I don’t know him all that well.
It’s a few weeks later and turns out he was just busy. Even though he texted me I still shouldn’t let him not texting me define my happiness or my worth. If he doesn’t like me I shouldn’t be upset that he wasn’t texting me. If he was ghosting me then I definitely shouldn’t care because he doesn’t define my worth. If he doesn’t like me that doesn’t mean nobody likes me. If he doesn’t like me then that doesn’t mean I have no reason to be happy. Happiness should come from within, not from a guy liking me.
I have been working on loving myself lately and it has been a great feeling. I feel more confident and happy. I am focusing on things that make me happy, not people. I am working on getting to a healthier place mentally, but it will definitely take time. The only way to get there is to focus on myself and put in the work. I am worth all the work!